Things to Think About

Everyday thoughts about nothing in particular. Just "things to think about".

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Location: Markleville, Indiana, United States

I have been married to a wonderful man, Marty, for 27 years and have three great children. Amanda, Drew and Amy. I also have three adorable grandkids, Dallys, Dylan and Donovan. I am a legal assistant/secretary and have done that job in one form or another for about 20 years. My church is CFC and they are my family.

Friday, May 20, 2005

A Little Overwhelmed

Things have been so busy lately getting ready for graduation I guess I haven't had time to really think about the fact that my baby boy is graduating. So many emotions come into play. I thought I was doing really good until the other night. Marty made the comment that his parents weren't sure if they were going to be able to make the trip from North Carolina for the graduation. Then it hit me. Those are Drew's only grandparents. A wave of total sadness swept over me. My mom and dad are not going to see him graduate. I just started crying. I couldn't help it. It's not like they haven't missed many other things since they've been gone. Maybe it's just because I am so tired.

Having our children grow up before our eyes is a sad and happy thing all at the same time. You want them to be strong adults and you pray that you have taught them the right paths to take through the years, but a part of you wants to keep them close and with you always. I guess that's just the cycle of life. Sometimes it just stinks. Especially for a mom.

Be blessed.

2 Comments:

Blogger Tracy said...

Andy,
I don't want my kids to grow up and they are only 6 & 9! What am I going to do when they graduate????
You have a wonderful family and we are so blessed to call you all friends.
It really doesn't seem possible Drew is graduating, he was so young when we started coming to church.
Time flies doesn't it!
Love you!

5/20/2005 10:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Andy...I know the sadness of your mom & dad not being there. Unless, you have been through it, no-one really knows.

All the special things that go on in our childrens lives & they aren't there. During those precious moments you just want to look over & see them...see the smile & the proud look on their faces...the gratification of it all. Well, I know they will be there in spirit & that they love you & are very proud of Drew. They ARE smiling! Love you girl!

5/21/2005 7:46 AM  

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